by Susan Palmes-Dennis
The Fil-American Community of the Carolinas (FACC) is growing through a rough patch amid the attempts by its advisory board to resolve the issues surrounding this “Jack N' Poy (the Filipino term for the rock, paper, scissors game to the unfamiliar)” routine done during its recent elections.
The FACC's Advisory Board is composed of its former presidents and was formed 25 years ago by the steering committee. The FACC's incorporation was approved in 1990 and since then had become a “vibrant community of engaged and caring individuals” according to 2003 FACC president Dr. Nini RB Bautista de Garcia.
The FACC Advisory Board recently posted on its Facebook group page which I would like to quote in toto:
“-Request that the new 2016 BOD (under Bobby Escobal) submit to the current Comelec (Steve Mirman) for immediate induction of new officers. Officers that have served in 2015 and are in the same position for 2016 will not be inducted. Only those officers who are new to the group and new to their position need to be inducted.
-Publication of the new resolution with the new set of 2016 BOD to all the Advisory Council and all the membership in the website, Facebook and blast e-mail the membership.
-Request an immediate BOD initial meeting in order to secure on-time reservations to venues.
OTHER PLANS FOR 2016 (can be administered by the Advisory Council , BOD or any volunteers)
- By-laws Amendments (Steve Mirman – Coordinator)
- Membership Records/Procedures Review (Coordinator to be determined)
- Website management/policy (Coordinator to be determined)
- Secretary-General appointment
Comelec Committee (Bert Rodriguez – Coordinator.”
This resolution simply means that there would be no general assembly as well for the 2015 Board of Directors to serve as 2016 officers. A friend told me there is nothing wrong with holdover officers as it happened when there were no persons interested in running the FACC. Not on this case. I respectfully disagree.
In this case it is really wrong since there was already an election that was held and invalidated. The principle of holdover can only be applied before an election where the body would also decide on their interim officers.
Assuming that the FACC's 2015 Board of Directors agreed to extend their time then their mandate is from the advisory board and not from the assembly. And ideally in a democracy that is a no no because the officers will be beholden to the body that give them power. This is a case of giving power to the few and the elite.
I’ve been reading the engagement of ideas on the issue since Ed Onia's first post and subsequent reactions made by Tony Amor and Rogelio Lawsin which, to refresh the memory of those who forgot about or chose not to remember it was espoused on the principles of transparency, check and balance and independence.
All three called for a general assembly, an act of participatory governance. Are the honorable members of the advisory board aware of this brazen, “animal-like” emasculation done by its members of the election process?
Or are they aware of this but they refused to acknowledge that fact? It is pathetic indeed. Sad because we are here in our adoptive country that gave birth to democracy.
Nowhere did the FACC board acknowledge the inputs of those people I’ve mentioned.What happened?Are those who gave inputs “back seat drivers.”
Not that these people need to be acknowledged but it is the essence of democracy that we learned from Philippine national heroes Jose Rizal and Andres Bonifacio that we take heed of the sentiments of those with a genuine sense of concern and commitment to the group.
While many may argue that the FACC is not a government but I tell you that organizations like the FACC are tantamount to being basic units of governance and governance requires participatory democracy.
Participation is not a new element of governance that gained popularity in recent attempts. It is an attempt to include the ideas of the governed that can be used in case the leadership has failed to do its part in addressing the concerns of its constituents.
In a general membership meeting, there's a meeting of many minds that can produce ideas that can be used to shape future decisions.
The FACC Advisory Board failed to acknowledge the call for a general membership meeting in order to hear the views of all those interested responsible persons so they can decide to vote on the issue of selecting its leaders.
It is crystal clear that the FACC's Commission on Elections (Comelec) abdicated its responsibility to the Advisory Council which, by its own admission, does not have any governing power.
Or is it that the few elite (my apologies) still wants to pull the strings from behind the scenes?
Cooperatives, government big and small, non-government organizations (NGOs) and civil society groups here and abroad recognize the importance of participation in addition to transparency and check and balance.
I believe on the capacity of course of the advisory board otherwise they would not be there if they were not elected or volunteered for the positions because they believe they are capable of doing the tasks required of them.
But what is disturbing here is that among the other plans listed by the FACC's current leadership for this year 2016 is that the tasks of the advisory board “can now be handled by the Advisory Council, board of directors and any volunteer.”
Why give too much power to a group? Why not share it and the responsibilities that accompany it to others who are just, if not more, as committed to the group in the spirit of participatory governance?
It is when the citizens or members participate that we can truly have an empowered organization. I won't be surprised when there would be members who would just fade away from FACC or join other organizations.
The election issues in the FACC remains unresolved as far as I am concerned.
(Susan Palmes-Dennis is a veteran journalist from Cagayan de Oro City, Misamis Oriental, Northern Mindanao in the Philippines and is now employed as teacher assistant in one of the school systems in the Carolinas.
Read her blogs on susanpalmesstraightfrom the Carolinas.com and at http://www.blogher.com/myprofile/spdennis54. These and other articles also appear at http://www.sunstar.com.ph/author/2582/susan-palmes-dennis.
You can also connect with her through her email susanap.dennis@yahoo.com as well as her Pinterest account at http://www.pinterest.com/pin/41025046580074350/) and https://www.facebook.com/pages/Straight-from-the-Carolinas-/494156950678063)
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What's with the Jack N' Poy in the FACC elections?
by Susan Palmes-Dennis
The Polish poet Czeslaw Milosz once wrote that ”in a room where people unanimously maintain a conspiracy of silence one word of truth sounds like a pistol shot.”
Milosz, who became a US citizen in the 70s, continued talking about the issues on his native Poland and his vigilance helped awaken social awareness among his people.
The recent invalidation of the election results of the Fil-American Community of the Carolinas (FACC) last December 5 by the FACC-Commission on Elections (Comelec) here at Charlotte, North Carolina and the events that happened earlier stirred up a hornet's nest that resulted in a fiery exchange between members and non-members at the group's Facebook page.
It all started with one post from Ed Onia. Nowhere did I see an outpouring of ideas and opinions of an event involving the FACC in recent time. It showed the passion of the Fil-American community for the FACC.
The controversy stemmed from allowing two persons to play a game of Jack N' Poy—the Filipino equivalent of paper, rock and scissors—with the winner taking the presidency.
The FACC-Comelec is the sole body entrusted with overseeing the elections and has the authority to resolve any election related issues. Anyone else trying to make a declaration that doesn't have its approval is guilty of usurpation of power.
Lest it be forgotten the FACC-Comelec's authority emanates from the supreme will of the members.
The by-laws are clear on this so what made the FACC-Comelec allow the two candidates to play Jack N' Poy when it is only allowed during a tie in election results?
Why not allow those present in the meeting to agree to vote for the two candidates? The winner needs only seven votes. Or was it because there were members of the FACC-Comelec who doesn't want any secret balloting?
Dr. Tony Amor said that if the results of the December 5, 2015 elections are “still inconclusive to this day” and the parties involved cannot come to any reasonable agreement, then “the FACC Comelec should invalidate the aforementioned election results and call for a general meeting for the purpose of electing a new set of officers.”
Amor posted his comment before the FACC-Comelec invalidated the result of the Jack N' Poy.
He also said it is “within the FACC-Comelec's authority to resolve any election matters as specified in the by-laws.”
“Duly registered members who are unable to attend the general election meeting should still be able to cast their ballots by mail-in paper proxy, email or on this FACC Facebook page,” he said.
The invalidation is also misleading because if the election of the president was invalidated, it also casts serious doubts on those elected to other positions. Is their election tainted or was there also Jack N' Poy involved?
I can only commiserate with the FACC-Comelec for this situation. I can only theorize that they were tired with dealing with it and that they've dealt with it more than once in the past few years.
Familiarity can get boring sometimes. But by allowing this Jack N' Poy to happen, the FACC-Comelec gave its blessing to those who instigated this farce and opened the floodgates of outrage ventilated by the group's members and even non-members who care about the FACC.
Did the FACC-Comelec abdicate its duty and allow the Jack N' Poy so they can buy peace within the group? Jack N' Poy, hale, hae hoy and poof, their job is done?
This could only worsen the situation and provoke and agitate those who put their faith in the group, believing that everything is okay and there's nothing to fix.
Having allowed the two presidential candidates to agree among themselves in their presence, the FACC-Comelec only succeeds in cheapening the presidency and other posts in the group.
Florami Lao Cordero-Lee, past FACC president, said the group is about transparencies and the members have to “know the truth.
“Someone is slithering like a snake somehow and is lying about everything, just to be a president,” Florami said. She did not elaborate who she was referring too.
The Jack N' Poy also sends the wrong signal that guidelines and by-laws can be by-passed simply because there were years that there were no candidates or volunteers to the positions.
Or was it because nobody is watching, that they don’t even attend or take into consideration the sentiments of the members? That was a wrong move—my apologies because the FACC and its FACC-Comelec needs a “pistol shot of truth” to be awakened and reminded of their duties and mandate to their members.
That pistol shot or several pistol shots were the Facebook posts that commented and questioned that Jack N' Poy allowed by the FACC-Comelec.
Did the recent incident awaken a sleeping volcano of sentiment (resentment?) among the FACC members? That volcano was bound to erupt after years of neglect by the group and the abuse of power of the few.
Times are different now, times are changing. The group's constitution and its by-laws must be pragmatic and dynamic, it must be attuned to serve the future.
Gone are the days of “tayo-tayo (us together)” and “ato ni (this is ours)”, when people are holding on to power ad infinitum as principles of transparency,check and balance and fixed terms of office are in place.
That those elected to office are reminded that a sword of Damocles is hanging over their heads lest they violate the terms of their tenure.
Events are easily reported due to social media and technology. No more secrets because even before secrets are revealed, they are already disclosed and tweeted to the public.
This Jack N' Poy is a litmus test on the FACC-Comelec's credibility and it can redeem itself from extinction by calling for a general membership meeting the soonest time possible.
Is the FACC beyond reform? Read the next blog on Straight from the Carolinas.
(Susan Palmes-Dennis is a veteran journalist from Cagayan de Oro City, Misamis Oriental, Northern Mindanao in the Philippines and is now employed teacher assistant in one of the school systems in the Carolinas.
Read her blogs on susanpalmesstraightfrom the Carolinas.com and at http://www.blogher.com/myprofile/spdennis54. These and other articles also appear at http://www.sunstar.com.ph/author/2582/susan-palmes-dennis.
You can also connect with her through her email susanap.dennis@yahoo.com as well as her Pinterest account at http://www.pinterest.com/pin/41025046580074350/) and https://www.facebook.com/pages/Straight-from-the-Carolinas-/494156950678063)
The Polish poet Czeslaw Milosz once wrote that ”in a room where people unanimously maintain a conspiracy of silence one word of truth sounds like a pistol shot.”
Milosz, who became a US citizen in the 70s, continued talking about the issues on his native Poland and his vigilance helped awaken social awareness among his people.
The recent invalidation of the election results of the Fil-American Community of the Carolinas (FACC) last December 5 by the FACC-Commission on Elections (Comelec) here at Charlotte, North Carolina and the events that happened earlier stirred up a hornet's nest that resulted in a fiery exchange between members and non-members at the group's Facebook page.
It all started with one post from Ed Onia. Nowhere did I see an outpouring of ideas and opinions of an event involving the FACC in recent time. It showed the passion of the Fil-American community for the FACC.
The controversy stemmed from allowing two persons to play a game of Jack N' Poy—the Filipino equivalent of paper, rock and scissors—with the winner taking the presidency.
The FACC-Comelec is the sole body entrusted with overseeing the elections and has the authority to resolve any election related issues. Anyone else trying to make a declaration that doesn't have its approval is guilty of usurpation of power.
Lest it be forgotten the FACC-Comelec's authority emanates from the supreme will of the members.
The by-laws are clear on this so what made the FACC-Comelec allow the two candidates to play Jack N' Poy when it is only allowed during a tie in election results?
Why not allow those present in the meeting to agree to vote for the two candidates? The winner needs only seven votes. Or was it because there were members of the FACC-Comelec who doesn't want any secret balloting?
Dr. Tony Amor said that if the results of the December 5, 2015 elections are “still inconclusive to this day” and the parties involved cannot come to any reasonable agreement, then “the FACC Comelec should invalidate the aforementioned election results and call for a general meeting for the purpose of electing a new set of officers.”
Amor posted his comment before the FACC-Comelec invalidated the result of the Jack N' Poy.
He also said it is “within the FACC-Comelec's authority to resolve any election matters as specified in the by-laws.”
“Duly registered members who are unable to attend the general election meeting should still be able to cast their ballots by mail-in paper proxy, email or on this FACC Facebook page,” he said.
The invalidation is also misleading because if the election of the president was invalidated, it also casts serious doubts on those elected to other positions. Is their election tainted or was there also Jack N' Poy involved?
I can only commiserate with the FACC-Comelec for this situation. I can only theorize that they were tired with dealing with it and that they've dealt with it more than once in the past few years.
Familiarity can get boring sometimes. But by allowing this Jack N' Poy to happen, the FACC-Comelec gave its blessing to those who instigated this farce and opened the floodgates of outrage ventilated by the group's members and even non-members who care about the FACC.
Did the FACC-Comelec abdicate its duty and allow the Jack N' Poy so they can buy peace within the group? Jack N' Poy, hale, hae hoy and poof, their job is done?
This could only worsen the situation and provoke and agitate those who put their faith in the group, believing that everything is okay and there's nothing to fix.
Having allowed the two presidential candidates to agree among themselves in their presence, the FACC-Comelec only succeeds in cheapening the presidency and other posts in the group.
Florami Lao Cordero-Lee, past FACC president, said the group is about transparencies and the members have to “know the truth.
“Someone is slithering like a snake somehow and is lying about everything, just to be a president,” Florami said. She did not elaborate who she was referring too.
The Jack N' Poy also sends the wrong signal that guidelines and by-laws can be by-passed simply because there were years that there were no candidates or volunteers to the positions.
Or was it because nobody is watching, that they don’t even attend or take into consideration the sentiments of the members? That was a wrong move—my apologies because the FACC and its FACC-Comelec needs a “pistol shot of truth” to be awakened and reminded of their duties and mandate to their members.
That pistol shot or several pistol shots were the Facebook posts that commented and questioned that Jack N' Poy allowed by the FACC-Comelec.
Did the recent incident awaken a sleeping volcano of sentiment (resentment?) among the FACC members? That volcano was bound to erupt after years of neglect by the group and the abuse of power of the few.
Times are different now, times are changing. The group's constitution and its by-laws must be pragmatic and dynamic, it must be attuned to serve the future.
Gone are the days of “tayo-tayo (us together)” and “ato ni (this is ours)”, when people are holding on to power ad infinitum as principles of transparency,check and balance and fixed terms of office are in place.
That those elected to office are reminded that a sword of Damocles is hanging over their heads lest they violate the terms of their tenure.
Events are easily reported due to social media and technology. No more secrets because even before secrets are revealed, they are already disclosed and tweeted to the public.
This Jack N' Poy is a litmus test on the FACC-Comelec's credibility and it can redeem itself from extinction by calling for a general membership meeting the soonest time possible.
Is the FACC beyond reform? Read the next blog on Straight from the Carolinas.
(Susan Palmes-Dennis is a veteran journalist from Cagayan de Oro City, Misamis Oriental, Northern Mindanao in the Philippines and is now employed teacher assistant in one of the school systems in the Carolinas.
Read her blogs on susanpalmesstraightfrom the Carolinas.com and at http://www.blogher.com/myprofile/spdennis54. These and other articles also appear at http://www.sunstar.com.ph/author/2582/susan-palmes-dennis.
You can also connect with her through her email susanap.dennis@yahoo.com as well as her Pinterest account at http://www.pinterest.com/pin/41025046580074350/) and https://www.facebook.com/pages/Straight-from-the-Carolinas-/494156950678063)
Tuesday, December 29, 2015
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Carolina features: Special cards from special kids: Archiana poses with her cards by Susan Palmes-Dennis It's a special kind of love they give every Christmas Day. They send cards ...
Sunday, December 27, 2015
Tech support for tech newbies
by Susan Palmes-Dennis
When in doubt, don’t click—wise advice to those unfamiliar with any product.
My Christmas gift this year is a Canon EOS Rebel 76i or 750 D camera courtesy of my hubby Ronnie Dennis.
I opened the gift expecting to see a camera because he asked me what I wanted for Christmas and I told him I wanted a camera. I didn’t know what brand it was nor that it was the Canon EOS camera that would turn out to be my gift.
My other camera, the Nikon 3100 which he gifted me five years ago was left to my daughter Tejane Mejorada when I visited the Philippines last June. Somehow I didn't know that an event isn't complete without a camera.
The camera has sort of become my buddy in my travels. But I'm no technology buff so I don't know how to transfer my photos to my laptop. Laptops and cameras have a symbiotic relationship which I'm not too familiar with.
Anyway here's my story. When I opened the camera I was in a hurry to use it. I just read the manual one time thinking it would be the same like my Nikon camera.
True there were similarities between the Nikon and Canon cameras but my overconfidence nearly caused me embarrassment because of photos I took that could not be uploaded.
I used my Canon camera last Dec. 7 and managed to upload the pictures to Facebook. A week after I used it again and was surprised when I failed to upload my photos.
Two days before that Sunday I screwed up big-time (just like Miss Universe pageant host Steve Harvey? Lol) when I changed something in the menu settings.
Through palliative solutions we thought we could upload the photos because the laptop couldn't read the memory card since it still carries Windows 7 software.
How would I know about JPEG, PNG or TIFF or that warning about not being able to upload the photos because the camera isn't synched with the laptop? I'm no technology expert.
I don't know about downloading a converter much less about Windows 7 being outdated. So I had to call the Canon office for support through 1-800-OK-Canon (1-800-652-2666). A certain Nichole answered and helped me.
It was found out that I enabled the Wi-Fi/NFC which I thought would automatically connect to the WiFi.
I also clicked raw instead of JPEG. After so many hours, I uploaded the photos to my laptop.
In order to spare others the same fate, here are my suggestions on what to do with a brand new camera.
1. Register the camera immediately upon receiving the product before going further. In the case of Canon- visit www.registercanon.com and register your new EOS camera.
In doing so you would receive automatic notification of firmware and software updates, priority telephone support, exclusive priority e-mail support address and exclusive savings on select products, classes and workshops.
2. Download the EOS Digital solution disk or depending in your brand which would have its equivalent.
3. Download camera instructional manual
4. Watch the instructional video which I think is available in other brands.
5. Read and study instruction manual and take time to study and re-read and follow the instruction.
6. While doing the menu settings- don’t click set when in doubt.
Thanks Nichole for making my day.
(Susan Palmes-Dennis is a veteran journalist from Cagayan de Oro City, Misamis Oriental, Northern Mindanao in the Philippines who worked as a nanny and is now employed as a sub-teacher and a part-time teacher assistant in one of the school systems in the Carolinas.
Read her blogs on susanpalmesstraightfrom the Carolinas.com and at http://www.blogher.com/myprofile/spdennis54. These and other articles also appear at http://www.sunstar.com.ph/author/2582/susan-palmes-dennis.
You can also connect with her through her email susanap.dennis@yahoo.com as well as her Pinterest account at http://www.pinterest.com/pin/41025046580074350/) and https://www.facebook.com/pages/Straight-from-the-Carolinas-/494156950678063)
Special cards from special kids
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| Archiana poses with her cards |
by Susan Palmes-Dennis
It's a special kind of love they give every Christmas Day. They send cards they signed personally to people that matter to them in school as a way of showing their gratitude.
The students of Hopewell High School Specialized Academic Curriculum (SAC) sign and send these 20 Christmas cards before the winter break supervised by their teachers Catherine Rice and Stephanie Davis- Barnes.
This SAC program at Hopewell is for students with moderate to severe disabilities.
There are 20 students and each of them signed the cards. I happen to be one of the teacher assistants for this class.
For some students like Archiana Fleming, it was an easy task they took seriously. Archiana had good penmanship while others like Isaac and Gabby would sign theirs with bold letters.
It doesn’t matter on what part they signed the card. Imani Palmer would sign her card by including the name of her imaginary friend Brianna, which Ma'am Barnes would caution her not to do so.
Some of the students can’t write and cut papers like other children. Cortez is one whose name was written by Archiana in the cards. Sophie’s Rouzeau-Sanders name was engraved by Ms. Elizabeth, the nurse.
Aside from Archiana, Evelyn Franklin, Misael Campos and K’wan McClure would volunteer to help sign the cards assisted by the staff.
“It is so much fun to let them sign the cards and they get such a kick out of it,” SAC teacher assistant Shelma Murray said.
This simple task helps the SAC students in developing skills and be thankful for simple things as well as learning the importance of giving back to others
The card giving started last year. The other teacher assistants who gladly helped the students were Carmen G Garland,Rosaline Nwigwe and Mrs.Hill who wrote the name of one of the students.
The 20 cards were sent to 11 people in the cafeteria, the media center, the technology department, coaches and curriculum in-charge and other teachers in other departments who helped them.
These children also visited Dollar Tree a day before the winter break to buy gifts to people that matter to them.
Most of them got gifts for their mom, dad, grandparents and friends but mostly for the family members. Ms. Carmen Garland reminded them to buy two gifts for people they would like to share their blessings with.
The activity motivated the students into asking and participating. Gabby, a Ninjago fan, had this bird that she gave to her grandmother. Jasmine bought a candle for her sister and would have spent her money if not for her teacher's advice to save it for the next field trip.
These and other activities are being prepared for these kids with special needs so they can make their own choices in life that's anchored on love and gratitude, qualities that are now vanishing in this increasingly hardened, cynical world.
(Susan Palmes-Dennis is a veteran journalist from Cagayan de Oro City, Misamis Oriental, Northern Mindanao in the Philippine is now employed as a teacher assistant in one of the school systems in the Carolinas.
Read her blogs on susanpalmesstraightfrom the Carolinas.com and at http://www.blogher.com/myprofile/spdennis54. These and other articles also appear at http://www.sunstar.com.ph/author/2582/susan-palmes-dennis.
You can also connect with her through her email susanap.dennis@yahoo.com as well as her Pinterest account at http://www.pinterest.com/pin/41025046580074350/) and https://www.facebook.com/pages/Straight-from-the-Carolinas-/494156950678063)
Sunday, December 20, 2015
The Our Lady of the Rosary comes to the Carolinas
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| The Our Lady of the Rosary Nuestra Senora de la Naval |
by
Susan Palmes-Dennis
CHARLOTTE,
North Carolina—The statue of the Our Lady of the Rosary NuestraSenora de la Naval is making its round of home visits here at the
Carolinas.
It had
been a long journey for the religious icon known as Nuestra Senora de
la Naval starting from the Philippines all the way to here in the
Carolinas.
Slowly
believers, devotees and even non-Catholics here in the Charlotte area
flocked to the homes where the Lady of the La Naval is welcome.
A new
rosary group is formed that is committed to spreading the beauty of
the rosary and how the lady intercedes on behalf of the devotees.
Last
Friday the Our Lady of the Rosary was welcomed in the home of
Kathryna Ronquillo Antone at 1731 Garrett Road, Indian Trail, North
Carolina C 28079, last December 18 at 7 p.m.
Nuestra
Senora de la Naval was radiant in her yellow vestment and crown with
gold colors illuminating the surroundings. In her Facebook page
created for the event, Malette Aquino-Oliveros posted:
“Welcome
to our newly formed La Naval Rosary group! I am so glad that one of
our friends have signed up for the month of December to host our
rosary prayer meeting.”
Malette
served as president of the Filipino-American Community of the
Carolinas (FACC) two years ago. The host Kathryna Antone asked
friends to help her welcome Nuestra Senora de la Naval. “Pls. join
me in welcoming "La Naval Mary" in our home,” she said.
A
number of families already signified interest in attending the
rosary. Oliveros is happy and inspired that the rosary group in
honor of the Senora de la Naval is slowly forming here at the
Carolinas.
The
statue is at home at her house at Concord but she is inspired by some
force to start the rosary group if only to spread the good news to
the community.
The
statue traveled from the Philippines eight years ago and was sent to
Malette Aquino Oliveros by her sister in law Dr. Blanca Oliveros who
was diagnosed with breast cancer eight years ago.
“She
is now cancer free,” Malette said. The statue was sent via DHL as a
thank you gift to our family. The statue became a permanent feature
in her beautiful home.
Malette
didn't start the rosary group since she belonged to the Servants of
the Holy Rosary which her older brother Arthur belongs.
That
was nine years ago and she and her husband belonged to the Holy
Rosary group when they transferred here in Charlotte.
Several
years passed since then and the Lady de la Naval stayed home Malette
was driven to spread the devotion to the lady.
Then
two years ago she became rhe president of the FACC and she made time
to tell stories about her statue when there are visitors in her
house.
Then
last year her close friends Dr. Emily and Ben Lorenzo asked if they
can start the rosary group. “That was the start and I brought the
La Naval Lady to the Lorenzos and we prayed the rosary,” Malette
said.
Then
another friend Lalaine Castillo who heard about the Lady joined the
group in saying the rosary when there is a family requesting for the
lady to visit their homes.
“I
invited the two families and Tracy and Mike Borja to our house to
pray,” Malette said. Suddenly, Kaye Antone called Malette and asked
to join the rosary group.
Now,
there are eight families in the group. Lota Mascarenas, a devout
Catholic, volunteered to print the prayers for Our Lady of La Naval
Rosary group.
“This
is just a great year for me to spread the word of our Virgin Mary to
pray the Rosary,” Malette said. She recalled that Paul Amigo
nspired her to form the rosary group.
“He
called me years back and told me that there's some Filipinos around
this area that I can call and asked them to join. He and his wife
Nena Amigo are devoted to the Charlotte Rosary groups. They are one
of the founders,” Malette said.
Malette
admitted that her devotion to the rosary started when she was still a
young girl. “My mom gave me a miraculous medal to pin on my under
clothes to keep me safe from harm and temptations when I was growing
up,” she said.
Malette
said her mother's side of the family has an image of the Dolorosa,
the weeping Mary who is at the procession during the Holy Week
observance in Calauag, Quezon province.
The
rosary is held in devotion to the Virgin Mary. It consists of a set
number of specific prayers. First are the introductory prayers: one
Apostles’ Creed (Credo), one Our Father (the Pater Noster or the
Lord’s Prayer), three Hail Mary’s (Ave’s), one Glory Be (Gloria
Patri).
In the
Philippines, the months of October and May are the busiest months for
the devotees of the Virgin Mary. As a Catholic myself, I firmly
believe that those who invoke the intercession of the mother under
any title would be happy and find peace in their lives.
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| The rosary devotees at the house of the Antones familty |
(Susan
Palmes-Dennis is a veteran journalist from Cagayan de Oro City,
Misamis Oriental, Northern Mindanao in the Philippines who worked as
a nanny and is now employed as a sub-teacher and a part-time teacher
assistant in one of the school systems in the Carolinas.
Read
her blogs on susanpalmesstraightfrom the Carolinas.com and at
http://www.blogher.com/myprofile/spdennis54. These and other articles
also appear at
http://www.sunstar.com.ph/author/2582/susan-palmes-dennis.
You
can also connect with her through her email susanap.dennis@yahoo.com
as well as her Pinterest account at
http://www.pinterest.com/pin/41025046580074350/) and
https://www.facebook.com/pages/Straight-from-the-Carolinas-/494156950678063)
Thursday, December 10, 2015
Security and the K 1 Visa
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| Family members comfort each other. Photo by Associated Press |
by Susan Palmes-Dennis
Charlotte, North Carolina- House Republican leaders announced a new legislative proposal aimed at boosting national security by changing the nation's visa waiver program.
They said the bill would get a vote by next week. A counterterrorism task force headed by the Republican committee chairman announced the bill on Thursday, and predicted it would pass with an overwhelming and bipartisan vote.
The bill came on the heels of the carnage at St. Bernardino, California a week ago resulting to the death of 14 people and wounding 21 others.
It is the first suspected terrorist attack in US soil after the infamous 9-11 and it kept me thinking about it for days as it involved the fiancée visa or K 1 Visa. I was reminded of my coming here in the US under the fiancée visa and because of what happened I recalled the process in my brain.
I came to the US five years and six months ago under the fiancée visa. A fiancée visa is a visa issued to the prospective wife/husband of an American citizen.
It is valid for 90 days after which the petitioned would return to the country of origin if marriage is not consummated. It is said to be the easiest visa obtained.
The news media had a grand time talking about the fiancée visa that I was reminded of what happened to me inside the US Embassy and my observation of the system.
The US K1 visa is not broken. There is no need to fix it despite what happened in San Bernardino but there is a part on the process overlooked by the US government.
Tashfeen Malik, now the most popular Muslim woman of modern times came to the US on a fiancée visa which I supposed was issued in Pakistan, her country of birth.
Tashfeen was one of the suspects in the San Bernardino carnage and is believed to have influenced Syed Rizwan Farook, the husband who was born and raised in the US. Many are of the opinion that Tashfeen radicalized Syed into committing the evil deed they did a week ago.
But why did the US embassy failed to learn that Tashfeen had been to countries suspected of being inhabited by terrorists or those engaged in the radicalization of Islam?
My take is that in every US embassy there are local employees and it was the local employees who interviewed, processed the papers and eventually recommending that it reach the US consul.
In my case during my interview, the first two sets of interview were done by Filipinos who were employed by the US embassy. These local employees look at the papers like birth certificate, affidavits, other papers, passports.
Those Filipinos who worked with the US embassy worked religiously scrutinizing any mistakes in spelling, dates and they would be happy to see any discrepancies on documents presented.
And it is when everything is okay with the papers that the applicant is told to proceed to the US consul. Reaching the consul is no longer a problem. The ambiance is more relaxed just like on my case.
I can remember how strict the Filipino embassy employee was when she interviewed me. She was so arrogant and asked vicious questions. That time I told myself, what kind of employees are these?
Well now, I can think Filipinos employed at the embassy were doing their job by protecting US interests. Was it the same with the local employes at the US embassy in Pakistan who approved Tashfeen’s papers?
Why these local employees failed to detect the places traveled by the petitioned when it can be seen in the passport or during the interviews? This I ask on the assumption that there are local employees in the embassy.
In Tashfeen’s case, did the local employees of the embassy commit lapses and failed to see her connection to ISIS or Al Qaeda? These are among the questions to be asked.
I see that in the next few days those who coming to the US through the K 1 Visa would have a hard time entering the country and the American citizens would be frustrated with the system.
Personally I see no reason that time and resources would be spent discussing and finding loopholes in the K 1 visa. It is just simple- ISIS and Al Qaeda have partners and in this case partners within the system.
(Susan Palmes-Dennis is a veteran journalist from Cagayan de Oro City, Misamis Oriental, Northern Mindanao in the Philippines who worked as a nanny and is now employed as a sub-teacher and a part-time teacher assistant in one of the school systems in the Carolinas.
Read her blogs on susanpalmesstraightfrom the Carolinas.com and at http://www.blogher.com/myprofile/spdennis54. These and other articles also appear at http://www.sunstar.com.ph/author/2582/susan-palmes-dennis.
You can also connect with her through her email susanap.dennis@yahoo.com as well as her Pinterest account at http://www.pinterest.com/pin/41025046580074350/) and https://www.facebook.com/pages/Straight-from-the-Carolinas-/494156950678063)
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